Sunday, October 12, 2014

Relationship Issues

Relationship issues are unpleasant. Breakups suck. If you were the one broken up with it can feel like a piece of your body is missing. You can get over a relationship of any kind. It will take time but you can be whole again. Even if you where the one who broke things off it still hurts. Especially if you where together for a long time. You have to get used to a new way of living and it's not easy. I have been there and it sucks. Trust me this feeling is only temporary. 
There are many many other people in the world and one of them will be a better match for you. Your destiny is never tied to anyone who leaves you. If they truly loved you nothing could make them leave. You will live and thrive without them. You get used to being with someone often and change is hard. We fight to hold on and we fight to let go. But you will get over it. The key is to stay as positive as you can. Read positive stories, quotes whatever your particular interest is. This website will be filled with links to content I have hand picked that lift me up when I am feeling down. And it is a full time job being happy. So be sure and get your positive fix on a daily basic. It will eventually become addicting.  
Enjoy life. Always choose happiness over relationship issues. Don't let your thoughts be all about relationship issues. Work on improving yourself during this time. The healthier you are mentally your relationships will be stronger. 
I love the fact that I will be able to enrich peoples lives by pointing them in the right direction. The internet is a big place and I will do my best to help you navigate it. I went thru a break up a year ago and read everything I could get my hands on about how other people got over breakups and that helped a great deal as well as passing time and getting out and meeting other people. Even when it feels like the last thing you want to do call up a friend or log on to my site and follow the links and get happier now.
Anytime relationships end it is completely normal to be sad. Use this time to better yourself. Want to learn a new subject? Teach yourself with free classes you can find online.
Life is so short try not to waste time moping around and being sad about relationship issues. Start improving you. Learn from the relationship. Where they a jerk who didn't deserve you anyway? Most likely. Or is there something you need to change about yourself? Don't get offended. There is nothing wrong with making positive changes. No matter what age you are. One thing that tremendously helped me was learning how to be content alone. A key to disappointment is trying to please other people and live up to their standards. It will only cause you grief. Take care of yourself and you will be happier healthier and more content.  
I remember what it is like to have this awful feeling. In fact I could not get out of bed for a week and then I slowly came around. I do not ever want to let any other human being on this earth cause me to feel that way again. People are just people. What gives them the right to be the judge of us? If you are getting that feeling more oft then naught you seriously should get out of the relationship. Find someone that has more of the same interests as you or respects yours at least. I'm never happy unless I am growing whether it be smarter, richer, healthier, skinnier I cannot stop and if someone or something stands in that way I am miserable. If your like me in that regard we will get along great because I am going to give you tips about how to use the web to find information and credible information at that. Stay away from spammy sites. Visit only legitimate sites. If it sounds way to good to be true it mostly likely is. Everyone is always trying to come up with the latest get rich quick scheme and trust me if getting rich quick was as easy as they say it is then why isn't everyone rich? When you buy someones product they earn a percentage and then they expect you to do the same thing. I don't know about you but I certainly don't want to earn money by selling people useless information that gets sold and sold again. Just be careful and if you don't understand something fully research it prior to giving the site any of your personal information. Older people can use the internet safely if they have a loved one of friend to check up on them occasionally:) It's just a different age now and younger people seem to learn catch on to new technology quicker in most cases. At any rate get over that breakup now and let's start helping people. 
Let relationship issues be a stepping stone to a better you. The healthier you are mentally, physically, emotionally the more chances your next relationship will work out. Spend some time alone during this time. Learn to enjoy your own company. It is very healthy because we cannot always be around other people. and remember they also need their own hobbies, interests and alone time. Don't take it personal.

Are you always worried that your current relationship will soon end? Don't be. Worst case scenario is they leave you right? Well if so you can find someone new. Learn to take care of and provide for yourself and you won't need to depend on anyone. Yes, Being with someone can be incredibly rewarding but you never want to lose your own identity to please someone else. Learn to be the strongest you that you can so that no situation can break you.

Ladies and gentlemen, If your partner cheats on you and does amazing things for their new fling don't let it bother you. Remember how they treated you in the beginning? Or even if they didn't they have after all been with you so of course they learned how to treat their new partner better. But who cares you know what they will turn into and trust they will get the same as you did unless they are someone that let's people walk all over them or they are indeed a saint. But what are the odds of that? THERE ARE MANY MORE FISH IN THE SEA OUT THERE! And partners that don't cheat. You always have the opportunity to start a new relationship. Who would want a cheater anyways? Yes, I KNOW how bad it hurts I have been through it and I have promised I would be a saint if they stayed with me...Ugh, that is repulsive behavior and it doesn't belong in any classy person's yes I said classy person that's what you are. Now it's time to start acting like one. To get yourself into the best condition to meet someone new (remember the one who does deserve everything you have to offer) you will need to start eating better, finding new ways to get as much exercise as possible during the day. 
If you like to exercise their are free or no cost options such as exercise videos online or on your on demand if you have cable. Or go to your local school and walk the track. Whatever is most comfortable to you is what you should do. Just make sure you do something. During my last painful break up I was searching for books on people going thru similar situations to see how they dealt and while it didn't cure me it did help me and know what? I eventually got over the sucker! His loss for losing such an amazing lady as myself:) I'm not perfect but who is? Start taking care of yourself, save money, lose weight and get fit. All of these things are closely in your grasp. The Internet is a virtual library. You can literally teach yourself anything online including building relationships of any type.
Or how about staying single? Nothing wrong with that. Or date just don't make any commitments. 

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